Pageant preparation is more than rehearsals, interviews, and perfecting your walk—it’s a transformative journey that can bring immense joy and fulfillment when approached with the right mindset. Here’s how to celebrate every step of the process:
1. Set Your Intentions
Start by reflecting on why you’re competing. Is it to share your platform, challenge yourself, or make lifelong connections? Keeping your “why” at the forefront will make every step more meaningful.
2. Celebrate Small Wins
Nailing a tough interview question, perfecting a new walk technique, or even balancing prep with your daily life are achievements worth celebrating. Each small win brings you closer to your big moment.
3. Build Lasting Relationships
One of the most beautiful parts of pageantry is the friendships you form. Celebrate the support and camaraderie with fellow contestants—cheering each other on makes the journey even sweeter.
4. Focus on Personal Growth
Pageant prep is a unique opportunity to grow—mentally, emotionally, and physically. Embrace the confidence you’re building, the skills you’re sharpening, and the person you’re becoming.
5. Practice Gratitude
Take a moment each day to reflect on what you’re grateful for. Whether it’s your support system, a great workout, or learning something new, gratitude can transform stress into joy.
6. Embrace Imperfections
The journey isn’t about being perfect; it’s about being authentic. Mistakes are opportunities to learn and grow—don’t let them steal your joy!
7. Find Moments to Have Fun
Pageant prep doesn’t have to be all work. Dance in your heels, laugh during practice, or enjoy your favorite treat after a long day. Joy is found in the little moments!
Remember, the crown is just the cherry on top—the real reward is the woman you become along the way. Choose joy in every step of your journey, and you’ll shine brighter than ever on stage!
How do you find joy in your pageant prep? Share your favorite moments below!
#PageantPrep #JoyInTheJourney #CelebrateYourself #MrsNYAmerican

A vision board is a powerful tool to visualize your dreams and stay focused on your pageant goals. Here’s how to create one that aligns with your aspirations and motivates you throughout your journey:
1. Define Your Goals

• What do you want to achieve in your pageant journey?
• Think beyond the crown—personal growth, confidence, community impact, or self-expression might be part of your vision.

2. Gather Supplies

• Poster board, corkboard, or a digital app (like Canva or Pinterest).
• Magazines, printed images, markers, scissors, and glue/tape.

3. Find Your Inspiration

• Pageant-Specific Goals: Images of crowns, elegant gowns, or someone speaking on stage.
• Personal Growth: Words like “confidence,” “poise,” or “empowerment.”
• Community Impact: Photos or quotes related to your platform or charity work.
• Self-Care: Include reminders to stay balanced and healthy (yoga poses, nutritious meals, etc.).

4. Arrange Your Board

• Place your biggest goal (like winning a title or making an impact) at the center.
• Surround it with supportive elements: affirmations, motivational quotes, and pictures.
• Be intentional—each item should represent a step toward your vision.

5. Add Meaningful Touches

• Use colors that resonate with you and evoke positive emotions.
• Include personal touches, like a photo of yourself smiling confidently or a meaningful mantra.

6. Place It Where You’ll See It

• Keep your vision board in a spot where it will inspire you daily—your bedroom, office, or even your phone screen.

7. Revisit and Refresh

• Your vision board should grow with you. Update it as your goals evolve or as you accomplish milestones.

Creating a vision board isn’t just about pretty pictures; it’s a reflection of your dreams and the action steps you’re ready to take. Remember, the possibilities are endless when you believe in yourself!
What’s your favorite tip for making a vision board? Share it below!
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#VisionBoard #PageantJourney #DreamBig #MrsNYAmerican

🎄✨ Happy Holidays from Mr. & Mrs. New York American ✨🎄  

This season, we’re filled with gratitude for the love and support of our family, friends, and community. As we celebrate the joy and warmth of the holidays, we send our heartfelt wishes to you and yours for a season filled with peace, love, and happiness.  

May your days be merry and bright, and may the New Year bring endless blessings!  

#HappyHolidays #WejkoFamily #MrsNYAmerican #MrNYAmerican #GratefulHearts

Ladies, Let’s Talk About Purpose!

As we prepare for the upcoming pageant season, it’s important to remember that being a titleholder isn’t just about the crown — it’s about impact. One of the most powerful ways we can make a difference is by championing a cause we’re truly passionate about.

Having a clear social cause not only amplifies your voice but also connects you with your community, shows authenticity, and strengthens your platform. So, how do you discover what really speaks to your heart? Here are a few questions to reflect on:

What breaks your heart or inspires you to take action?
Think about a problem in the world or your community that makes you say, “I need to do something about this!”

What challenges have you personally overcome?
Oftentimes, our most impactful platforms stem from our own life experiences and the lessons we’ve learned.

Who or what has had the biggest influence on your life?
Perhaps there’s a person, event, or organization that shaped you and now inspires your purpose.

What could you spend hours talking about or working toward?
The things we’re most passionate about naturally hold our attention and energy.

Where do you see yourself making a lasting difference?
Think about the legacy you want to leave behind. What work could you do that creates ripples of change?

Once you’ve identified your cause, don’t be afraid to share it with the world! Use your platform to inspire others, raise awareness, and take meaningful action.

What causes are you thinking about? Let’s share in the comments and support each other in finding our purpose! Together, we can create real change.
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#PurposefulPageantry #FindYourCause #MrsNYAmericaJourney

This past weekend was nothing short of magical as I had the immense honor of participating in the It’s a Wonderful Life Festival in Bedford Falls—or as we know it, the beautiful town of Seneca Falls, NY. For anyone who loves the classic film It’s a Wonderful Life, this annual celebration brings the movie to life and reminds us all of the themes that have stood the test of time: hope, perseverance, and community.

Friday: A Day of Launches, Reflections, and Memories
The festivities kicked off on Friday with an incredible Press Conference where I had the honor of sharing the stage with some remarkable individuals: Karolyn Grimes (who played "Zuzu Bailey"), Jimmy Hawkins ("Tommy Bailey"), and Donald Collins ("Young Pete Bailey"). Together, we celebrated the launch of Zuzu’s Petals, a new initiative that spreads messages of hope and encouragement—something that resonates deeply with me and my work as an advocate for survivors of childhood trauma.

After the conference, I was privileged to serve as a guest speaker. Standing in a room surrounded by It’s a Wonderful Life enthusiasts, I spoke about how the timeless themes of the movie connect to trauma survivors. Just as George Bailey’s journey reminded us of the value of every life, I shared how survivors can rediscover hope, healing, and their own worth even after the darkest moments. It was a deeply moving experience to connect my story to the heart of this classic film.
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The day ended on a truly heartwarming note at the Preview Dinner, where Monica Capra Hodges shared memories of her grandfather, Frank Capra. Listening to stories about the man behind the masterpiece brought a new level of appreciation for the film and its enduring impact. Sharing a meal surrounded by wonderful company and inspiring conversations was the perfect way to wrap up the evening.

Saturday: Honoring Hope and Celebrating Togetherness
On Saturday, I was deeply honored to serve as a special guest at the 21st Annual George Bailey Awards. The event highlighted individuals whose contributions bring hope and positivity to their communities—embodying the spirit of George Bailey himself. I spent time helping guests create their own Zuzu’s Petals, spreading messages of hope, encouragement, and resilience. It was a beautiful reminder of how simple acts of kindness can touch hearts and inspire change.

And of course, what would a festival be without a parade? I had the absolute joy of participating in the parade through the charming streets of Seneca Falls, surrounded by smiles, cheers, and the infectious holiday spirit. It was a moment I will cherish forever.

Sunday: Final Scenes and Lifelong Memories
Sunday brought the perfect close to the weekend. I spent the day strolling through town, taking in the sights and sounds of the festival. There’s something magical about Seneca Falls during this time—it truly feels like stepping into Bedford Falls.

The highlight of the evening was the Final Scene Dinner, where I was honored to sing Buffalo Gal alongside George Bailey himself! Sharing this special moment brought back all the nostalgia of the movie and was a perfect tribute to a weekend filled with joy, connection, and reflection.

A Weekend to Remember
Being part of the It’s a Wonderful Life Festival was not only an honor but also a profound reminder of the power of hope, love, and community. The themes of this movie are timeless, and its message continues to inspire—whether it’s helping a neighbor, believing in your own worth, or spreading kindness one "petal" at a time.

To those who made this weekend so special, thank you. I left Seneca Falls with a full heart, cherished memories, and a renewed commitment to spreading hope and encouragement in every way I can. Because, as Clarence the angel reminds us, "Each man's life touches so many other lives."

It truly is a wonderful life.

#ItsAWonderfulLifeFestival #BedfordFalls #ZuzusPetals #HopeHealingAndHappiness #SpreadingKindness #ItsAWonderfulLife

“Zuzu’s petals . . . they’re here Bert!”

A press conference with the Actors from “It’s a Wonderful Life” will be held on Friday, December 13 at 10:00 am at 32 Fall St. Seneca Falls, NY. This is the original location of the “It’s a Wonderful Life” Museum which is currently being expanded. The backdrop will be an International Festival of Trees with ornaments and nativity sets from 50 countries as well as plans for the expansion of the Museum.

Present to welcome the press and visitors for the 78th Anniversary of “It’s a Wonderful Life” will be Karolyn Grimes (“Zuzu Bailey”), Jimmy Hawkins (“Tommy Bailey”) and Donald Collins (one of the twins who played young “Pete Bailey”).

Also present will be Victoria Wejko, Mrs. New York American 2024 who will help launch the national “Zuzu’s Petals Project.”

The expanded Museum, scheduled to open in recognition of the 80th Anniversary of the film in December 2026, will include an area where people can take a “Zuzu’s petal” – a symbol of hope – or make a “Zuzu’s petal” to leave as a symbol of hope for someone else.

The “Zuzu’s Petals” Project will be launched at the Press Conference asking for people from around the country to make “Zuzu’s Petals” for the expanded Museum. In this way they can provide hope to people they may not even know. These will be available in the expanded Museum for people to take with them

During the Festival, there will be “Zusu’s Petals Stations” in five locations where people can be part of the process of spreading hope and the message of “It’s a Wonderful Life” about the value and equal importance of each individual.

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